Are you single and think it’s time to find the love of your life? Or are you single and absolutely happy, but still wondering why you are missing out on relationships? There are reasons why you feel the way you do, some of them are pretty obvious while others are subtle and hard to determine. Whether you are satisfied with the fact that you urgently need to change something, here are ten honest reasons why you are still single.
You just like it
Sometimes it’s not about laziness or fear of the date, some women just fly solo! It’s a different lifestyle and you may just be one of those girls who prefers spending time on work, friends, hobbies and traveling instead of building relationships. In that case, why are you even surprised if you do not have a boyfriend, if you are not interested in dating at all? Be adventurous, find time for a date or two and see where you are going. That is, if you want, of course.
You are not over someone
That’s pretty easy, but only if you can be completely honest with yourself. Do you still have feelings for your ex or this nice colleague who ignored you for ages? Things like these make you unhappy and you do not enjoy new connections that could or could not make relationships. You have to sort things out with previous relationships before you meet other people!
They are looking for the one
This is completely understandable and not a bad thing at all, but you have to be careful if you set your standards too high. Because the more people we meet, the more experienced we become and the better we understand ourselves, our needs and the needs of other people. Maybe you meet someone who is not a prince charming, but in the end he may become your best teacher. Do not deny yourself the chance to learn from other people!
You are afraid of being hurt
And are not we all, really? Overcoming this fear and exposing one another makes love and relationships so beautiful. You can not get physically and psychologically intimate with someone if you hold up your walls. Be open to the world and the people around you, be honest with what you feel and what you want – and you will see how much happier you will be, whether single or not.